The Gospel of “Settle For” – I Don’t Buy It!

The biggest challenge with religion, in my humble opinion, is the myriad interpretations and related assumptions made by individuals as well as organizations (churches and otherwise) which lead people astray.

In this case, to “settle for” a life that we didn’t specifically choose or don’t truly enjoy.

It is certainly possible that I too misinterpret, other than the fact that my opinion is right 🙂

Here we go…

Too often people feel that it is the will of God that they are:

  • Impoverished
  • Not living where or how they would REALLY like to live
  • Not receiving the “better things” in life, because they just don’t deserve it, or ANYTHING for that matter

And, they feel that they must simply be “content.”

This is NOT the will of the God, of my faith!

If humankind remained “content”, we would:

  • Still be riding horses as our main form of transportation.
  • Still be reading from parchment paper scrolls with much of society remaining uneducated.
  • Not have running water or electricity.
  • Not have the cures to the diseases that we have today.
  • Not have gone to the dentist to have that toothache addressed.
  • Not have the Apple Watch. Now, that would be a real bummer 🙂

Or, is all this advancement considered sin. I think not!

So, if this (advancement due to constructive discontent) is “ok” for society as a whole, why is it not ok for each one of us as individuals? Well, I’d suggest that it is MORE than ok!

Yes, humankind (myself being the prime example) has made MANY, MANY, MANY mistakes due to our discontent. I’d suggest that we consider that any of our unfortunate / mistaken outcomes resulted from our either being misinformed or wrongly intended. So, if you could humor me for this post and leave those examples out, maybe we can learn something here 🙂

Consider the following from 1 Timothy 6:17

…hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment

Hope, faith and prayer are certainly important! The more the better! That said, notice that the above verse (or any around it) doesn’t say ANYTHING about “sit and wait.” In fact, the above would suggest to me that we should not live with anything but the best!

An apt verse, to coach us on the way there comes from Matthew 7:7-8

Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.

You see, the Bible recommends ACTION. Nothing comes for free, or simply by being “content”!

I’ll again quote from a story shared by a pioneer in the field of personal development (Earl Nightingale). In his program (Lead the Field) he shares the following parable…

A priest was driving through the country and observes a well maintained (even beautiful) farm, with the apparent owner out front doing some yard work. The priest stops his car, gets out and hails the man, saying: “My, God has blessed you with a fine farm!

The farmer thought for a moment and responded. “Why yes, I am fortunate and certainly feel blessed. But you should have seen this place when God had it all to himself.

The point is this…We are all (with rare exception) given (blessed with):

  • Our life
  • ALL of creation
  • The opportunities and challenges (a.k.a. experiences) put before us
  • The universal law of cause and effect (a.k.a. sowing and reaping). Sowing (cause), defined as doing something productive, such as: praying, meditating, planning and executing.

The rest is up to us. The unlimited rewards in life are there for us to “earn” which is the “deserved” outcome of our sowing. To be sure, our crops (efforts) may fail from time-to-time. And, the outcome realized may be a bit different than we had anticipated. But, the law of sowing and reaping says that at some point we will bring forth results! This is where faith comes in.

Thinking anything less, given all the information handed down from the ages, is simply delusional.

Now, let’s take things to the next level.

When we do REALLY go for it, how much better a position are we in to help others? Those who REALLY need it! That is, those unfortunate souls who do not have the mental or physical capacity to make it on their own, or live in an impoverished nation.

By fully working with the law of sowing and reaping (a.k.a. cause and effect) we can arrive at a position of strength. We are able to help others with our money and time, while not being dependent on others.

Curious how to make all this happen? Scour this blog and you’ll be off to a great start.

All the best!

Unemployed? Unable To Make Ends Meet? There Is An Answer!

I just HAD to take this quick break from my lawn maintenance project, which will hopefully be the end to my battle with grubs and moles in the backyard.

I just returned from Lowe’s with enough chemicals for the EPA to consider my yard a superfund site 🙂

Anyway, as I entered Lowe’s I observed a large chalkboard which listed 8-10 jobs which they are looking to fill RIGHT NOW! These jobs range from somewhat low-skilled labor, to what would seem to be a bit higher skilled (i.e., technicians and a management position).

On my way home I passed our local Goodwill store and they have a prominent sign by the side of a very busy street: Now Hiring!

Why oh why are there SO MANY available jobs when there are so many people (young and old) who could use work? This “need for work” would include the unemployed (especially the people who stand on the islands in the middle of the street with a sign saying: “Will work for food!“) as well as ANYONE who is presently unable to make ends meet with their current job.

Is it that they are not satisfied, perhaps embarrassed or even offended by the level and pay offered by these fine companies.

I’d like to suggest that if the above is the case for you, you are looking at the wrong end of the equation.

Bottom-line: It isn’t how much you make. It is how much you SPEND!

Here are some telling questions if you are unemployed and/or unable to make ends meet:

  • Do you still have cable or satellite TV?
  • How much did you spend last week on:
    • Cigarettes and/or booze?
    • Eating out (including Dunkin Donuts or worse, from a cost perspective, Starbucks coffee)?
    • Entertainment (the movies, monster truck show or rock concert)?

Frankly, if you are NOT taking available jobs in your community to provide for your family (but instead living off the state, other people or increasing debt) then I’d suggest you absolutely CANNOT afford ANY of the things listed above and others that are not included (just use your imagination).

For those this article applies to (the unemployed and/or unable to make ends meet), hopefully this short post served (at least) a few purposes:

  1. Let you know of available jobs in the community of Greater Hudson. And, I assume the same exists in other communities.
  2. Prompted you to face reality and consider RUTHLESSLY SLASHING expenses so that you are able to live within your means.
  3. If you should have a spouse and/or children, you can provide an example of the work ethic this great country was founded on. That is, do whatever it takes (so long as it is legal, ethical and morally right) to provide for your family.

All the best!

p.s. – Now back to whacking grubs and moles 🙂

The Importance of Momentum

As I write this, I just returned from an afternoon on my bike, riding some of the most difficult terrain around. This includes a bit of “hike-a-bike.” That is, there are portions of this trail that I don’t imagine anyone could ride. So, you must push or carry your bike.

The scratches from thorns and branches are still stinging my arms and shin. The trophies of a good ride 🙂

This particular “trail system” is only a quarter of a mile from my front door. I say trail system as there are numerous individual trails that one can take. I chose a 10-mile loop which starts by following powerlines. There are portions of this trail (even along the powerlines) that would seem to be no-man’s land. That is, there is NOTHING but wildlife, streams, beaver dams and the resulting ponds. No sound or sight of man.

After 4+ miles along the powerlines I took a path that veers off into another trail system which loops back home.

Below is a picture of the track as recorded by the AllTrails app on my iPhone, offered by National Geographic.

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Even cooler is the fact that AllTrails provides the option to view additional details of each recorded track online. For example, to view today’s ride simply click here. If you should visit the site, you can zoom in on the image and see the myriad trails as well as the topography of the terrain which includes some very steep inclines (hike-a-bike) and declines (hang on for your life 🙂 ).

I digress…

During today’s ride I was constantly reminded of a common statement that we riders make while traversing difficult terrain. That is: Keep up your momentum. Otherwise, you’ll get hung-up on a rock, root, stump, turtle, etc. Yep, I almost hit a couple of turtles today 🙂

An added benefit of keeping up the momentum (especially in the woods) is you don’t need bug spray. Because, if you stop you’ll get eaten alive.

The same advice goes for life.

If we have no momentum as we contemplate (and “think” we are working towards) a goal (a personal or work-related task, project or objective) then every single obstacle seems extremely difficult and insurmountable.

However, with momentum we just keep meeting these head-on and knocking them down. Before long we are doing this without even considering them obstacles. They merely become unforeseen tasks, questions, issues, etc. that must be addressed along the path. No problem…

Reminds me of a quote I’ve shared before:

You cannot steer a parked car

You see, the car isn’t moving. And, since it is going nowhere, it cannot be directed.

Do you have ideas on how you might accomplish any of the following:

  • Improve your personal life / situation or that of someone else important to you
  • Increase your education
  • Grow your business
  • Increase your income

Realize, that once you select and fully commit to one of your ideas and begin acting on it the fulfillment of the objective is only a matter of time.

Yes, there will be unforeseen obstacles. Who cares?!? Just go over, under, around or through them, as they come up. While you may need to change your plan to realize the objective, and receive a few bumps, bruises and scratches along the way, if it is important to you and you keep at it, you can get there.

So, long as you maintain momentum.

All the best!