During senior year of high school my Dad pushed for a decision on what I would go to college for. I had ABSOLUTELY no idea. Knowing I liked to tinker with electronics, he said “Here are 2 options; electronics and computer programming.” I said, “Well, let’s go with, um, ahhh, hmmm…Computer Programming.” The options presented were at what is now called Northern Maine Community College.
We are taking a similar approach with our kids. That is, having them start at a local / community college and we “foot the bill.” There are numerous benefits, including:
- It being much easier to “pay as you go” (loan free)
- There are no (additional) expenses for room and board (although these boys are eating a whole lot more!)
- When an early mistake is made (i.e., a class must be retaken) it isn’t too painful/costly
- Provides an opportunity to try things out (college as well as the field of study) to get their feet wet and determine if this is truly the direction they want to go, making a change in direction less painful/costly
- Credits from community college can be transferred to 4-year colleges saving 10’s of thousands of dollars!!!
- Bottom-line: Provides a foundational college education with no loans hanging over their head
Once they have achieved an Associates Degree, and possibly a Certificate or two, a decision can be made regarding the continuation of that education. This is where they begin “footing the bill.” I’m willing to co-sign for loans, but they take ownership of this next level of investment in their education — if they choose to continue. This includes continuing to maintain a job to cover their living expenses and to begin making payments on their newly acquired school loans (while still in school). This approach is working well so far; 3 in process, 1 to go 🙂
While I may have “only” achieved my Associates Degree I took advantage of EVERY training opportunity provided by employers and have consistently invested (out-of-pocket) in continuous education — in many forms. The result: Achieving “only” an Associates Degree hasn’t held me back in the least.
Make no mistake, I believe that a solid education is crucial! My experience is that it isn’t “so much” the degree achieved or the college attended, but what you do with that degree and how you continue your education — FOREVER!
A few pointers related to college-related books, as they are EXPENSIVE! Once your student has their list of classes they can find out what books are needed for each – from their teacher. NOT the school bookstore. Go to Amazon.com to acquire these vs. the school bookstore and you will save a great deal! Then, monitor the use of the books after classes have begun. There have been numerous cases for our kids when the teacher indicates “This is recommended reference material, but we really aren’t going to use it.” When you observe this, send it back to Amazon for a refund!
Economists report that a college education adds many thousands of dollars to a man’s lifetime income – which he then spends sending his son to college. ~ Bill Vaughn
Please feel free to reply with strategies you’ve found effective for helping your kid(s) through the process of acquiring a college education, without you taking on debt to do so. And, please feel free to forward this along to anyone you feel may benefit.
Well said..
Peter Ciaraldi
From: Be Brave Not Safe Reply-To: Be Brave Not Safe Date: Tuesday, March 11, 2014 at 6:38 AM To: Peter Ciaraldi Subject: [New post] Who Pays for College and How?
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I agree, I went to a “University” when I started college. The government paid for most of my education because of my unfortunate up bringing. I took it for granted. I did not use the tools that the University provided me. I was there for 8 semesters, dropped some classes, failed others, acquired 76 credits for something I don’t plan to study and ultimately racked
up 50k in student loans. My first mistake was taking the free education for granted. I squandered what most people would kill for. My 2nd and what I believe was my most crucial mistake or act of ignorance was not using the tools set up for me to succeed. By tools I mean the financial advisers and counselors. It doesn’t cost you any extra to visit these people and gain the knowledge they have. I eventually left school and returned 5 years later. This time I went to a community college and will finish my associates in Business Administration in May. The first thing I did upon returning back to college was go and see an adviser. It was free, I hadn’t even enrolled yet. I asked questions like what degree makes the most sense for me? How will my current credits roll into my new degree, can I get funding, where can I go from here and how can I get there. Since January of 2012 I’ve probably been in the advising office 50 times. They know me by name. They say yes Michael what can we do for you today?! This is not a bad thing, advisers like helping people achieve their goals. You can’t always do it alone, ask for help. It cost a lot less in the long run, monetarily and in time.
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