Author Archives: Craig Bailey

What If I Cut My Mailbox “Off The Post”?

I wonder what would happen if I grabbed my chainsaw and cut our mailbox off the post?

Other than my neighbors thinking I’m a bit whacky, I would simply be left with the nice post (I’d refinish the top, of course) indicating my house number on our street. Would that be so bad? I wonder what I’d miss? Certainly not “most” of my bills, as they arrive in email.

When we cut the landline telephone years ago the biggest benefit we realized was telemarketers could no longer reach us.

Back to snail mail…”Most” of what we receive in our daily mail is pure junk that goes straight to the recycle bin. Nothing new, really. So, what prompted me to write this post?

My oldest son, who is attending college in Boston, received his weekly letter from a State Farm Agent promising to cut his auto insurance bill if he’d switch to her firm. I had had enough 🙂

So, on behalf of my son (who I confirmed was ok with this) I found her website and sent her an email as follows:

Please, please, please stop sending me paper. I don’t even own a car. I’m a college student in Boston. You are literally killing trees for no apparent reason.
I only acquire services when someone I know recommends them. Not when I get a piece of paper in the mail. That, goes straight to the recycle bin.
I hope you have a nice day 🙂

And, I provided his name so that she’d know who to remove from her database.

Just Say NO! – To Paper.

Why not, kill the mailbox!

Why am I “lit up” about this? A few reasons:

  • As stated in the note ghost written for my son:
    • I acquire things more based on a recommendation from friends, an unbiased 3rd-party (about how awesome the firm is), or my own experience and research rather than as a result of a piece of paper arriving in my mailbox.
    • We are killing trees for no apparent reason.
  • The USPS has been running in the red. That means it is not “self-sustaining.” If it was a business it would have gone bankrupt. Because it is a government entity it gets funding from sources other than its revenue. From who, ultimately? You and me (via our tax dollars)!

An idea? How about making it more painful (costly) to send paper. What if the price of a stamp was $1.00? People would think twice before sending junk. And, if there is a need to send a nice note to someone – USE EMAIL!

I was mentioning this to a friend who responded with “What about all the postal workers? What would they do?

You probably know my answer: “They would find ANOTHER job!

What happens to everyone else when an industry goes obsolete (think vinyl records and carburetors)? We move on! The next question would be: Who will deliver stuff to people without email? The USPS (a downsized version) could still fill that void. And, we also have UPS and Fedex for packages. So, we’d be ok…

Here are steps I plan on taking:

  • If I personally know the service provider (my dentist, for example) I’ll talk to them on my next visit and ask them to send our bills and appointment reminders via email. I’ll bet other customers of theirs would “opt-in” resulting in the service provider saving time and money!
  • If it is junk mail (coupon, catalog, flyer) from a large / well known company I’ll visit Catalog Choice (as discussed in my prior post) and request that I be removed from their mailing list.
  • If it is not one of the above I will:
    • Find a way to contact them to ask them to stop sending me paper.
    • If that doesn’t work, I’ll write “Refused” on the letter (or whatever), put an X through my address and drop it back in a corner USPS mailbox.

In closing, I plan on having some fun with this. I’ll report back in the future to provide an update on how things are going.

Hope you enjoy your day. Go paperless!

They Need to Pay Me More! Really?!?

With 3 of my sons in college I often hear them talking about conversations they’ve had with fellow students who are lamenting about offers they’ve received for their anticipated first job, resulting from their degree.

A frequent comment my sons have heard is: “I need to be paid more than $X per hour (or year) for that job.” And, the follow-up: “I have a friend who is making 20% more than what they offered me.”

First, congratulations on earning the upcoming or recently acquired degree!!! Hang it proudly. Realize, though, it is just a piece of paper, which caries zero entitlements. And, an education does NOT end with a degree, unless we plan on coasting for the rest of our lives.

Let’s be clear: The potential employer (most likely) doesn’t know the college graduate. And, it is (likely) that the graduate hasn’t yet had the opportunity to demonstrate “real-world business experience” related to the degree earned. Yes, there are exceptions (especially for those fortunate enough to have landed a solid internship in their field of study).

For the rest of us (myself included) we must get our foot in the door and WORK OUR TAILS OFF, if we want to get ahead of the pack.

Think about this. Have you ever sat in front of a wood stove and said “give me some heat!”? What happened – NOTHING!

If we want heat we must first put wood in, light it, give it time to warm up and then / finally we get some heat.

The same goes with a salary. Yes, an employer will begin paying us upon starting a job. But, if we want more we need to demonstrate we are worth more. If, on the other hand, our attitude is “if that is all they are going to pay me then this is all I’m going to do – that which is absolutely necessary to maintain the job and nothing more”, then guess what? That is all we will be paid (expect no dramatic increases). And, we are likely to be a “C Player” who will be jettisoned (that is short for “laid off in a heartbeat“) at the first possible time and/or when the company experiences its next downturn.

To be paid more we have to be worth more. How do we become worth more? Do more than is expected (no brown nosing, please) and be more!

You might ask, where do I get started? I am SO glad you asked. The quick answer: Read more of this blog and ACT on what is suggested. To review focused content on “Personal Success” and “Leadership” read entries in this blog categorized as such. You can do so in 2 ways:

  1. At the top of this post, on the left, under the date, click on “Leadership” or “Personal Success”. All posts for the selected category will instantaneously be presented to you! Gotta love WordPress!
  2. Near the bottom of any page of this blog, on the right, you’ll see a pick list labeled “Categories.” Select “Leadership” or “Personal Success” and voila, the same thing will happen (you will be presented with all posts for this category).

Enjoy the (never-ending) process! And, don’t be afraid to come back for more 🙂

THINK Your Way to Success!

At birth, each and every one of us is endowed with the most powerful piece of equipment known to humankind: the brain!

Our brain comes to us free and clear. Often, things that are free are taken for granted. The brain is no exception.

With it, “the collective we” have built rocket ships, skyscrapers and computers. We have conquered major diseases and I know one day we will conquer cancer. All through effective use of the human mind.

It matters not the size of the brain. In one of Earl Nightingale’s programs we learn that the largest brain ever recorded was that of an idiot and the smallest was that of a genius.

It matters not the circumstance. We’ve each observed people who came from nothing (minimal to no “formal” education, severe handicaps, and the like) and made it big – REALLY BIG!

So, why are there “so few” who truly fulfill their dreams? By and large, we don’t THINK.

Getting up in the morning to an alarm, brushing one’s teeth, grabbing a cup of coffee, driving to work takes NO thinking. How many times have we arrived at our job and said “Man, I don’t remember the drive! How did I get here?” We were on auto-pilot.

Then, while at work we “go through the motions” until the 5 o’clock bell rings and head home, only to go through the same process again the following day. While we may be doing what it takes to earn a paycheck, there is so much more…

This whole “THINKING” thing really hit home for me back in the early 90’s. I was working for a cellular telephone company in Atlanta, GA. I led an IT team responsible for maintaining and enhancing the core business application we used to manage customer subscriptions, credit, invoicing, collections and customer care.

The firm engaged “the guru” who knew how to make the operating system, that our cellular management information system was running on, hum. Because we were growing so fast the application wasn’t keeping up performance-wise, so we needed to do some major tuning. Time was of the essence!

This guru (which he definitely was) really knew his stuff! He made a number of recommendations which we implemented with great success. However, he also made a set of “foundational recommendations” that were pretty far sweeping (and high risk). I was placed in the role of evaluating the potential risk and impact of implementing these changes. I thought: “What, me, a lowly team leader, up against “the guru” of the operating system?” I was a “little” stressed, to say the least.

But, I got started…The first thing I did was draw a diagram of the application landscape (all the moving parts) on my whiteboard. I “was” the expert on this. I had been in just about every nook and cranny of this application, broke a few things myself and fixed way more (which is why I was still in the role 🙂 ).

Then, each morning before others arrived at work and in the evening after everyone left I would sit, stare at that diagram and THINK. I would ask myself: “What would his [the guru’s] recommendation mean here, and here, and here?” This went on for several days. And, the outcome was nothing short of amazing. I could not believe the number of epiphanies that I had. While I certainly was no match for “the guru’s” knowledge of the operating system, I was able to identify numerous issues and risks that would have brought this mission critical application to its knees.

Now, frequent readers of this blog know that I am a person that looks for ways to “make things happen.” In this case, the thing I was asked to “make happen” was ensuring our core application survived the guru.

After gathering and organizing all my notes I was asked to present my findings to the CIO, COO and several others, including “the guru.” In summary, the “foundational recommendations” were nixed. We achieved the necessary performance improvements via other means.

This experience taught me a valuable lesson that I try to impart to others when they say something like “But I don’t know how to do this.” My response is: “If you DID know how to do this, what would you do first, second, etc.” Initially, they look at me like I have 2 heads.

The point: I’m NOT going to tell them how to do something until they’ve at least demonstrated that they’ve tried to THINK about how they might do it. Once they’ve done that they can share their thoughts and ideas with me at which time I can provide guidance.

Too often people either decide not to do something, because they’ve never done it before, or they ask someone else how before sitting down and firing up their thinking apparatus.

Give this a try. The next time you are confused, unsure of a situation or assignment, or just plain stressed, sit down with a piece of paper. Write out the problem being faced and then THINK. What is the true problem? What are the possible outcomes (good and bad)? What are steps that I can take to address this? Turn it over and over in your mind, writing down the ideas that come up. You will be amazed at just how much you really do know.

Then, organize your thoughts and ideas into a plan of action.

If it is high risk and/or highly complex now would be time to run your thoughts and ideas by someone else (preferably a trusted advisor, someone who has faced similar challenges in the past). Then act! Remember, as long as your ideas are “directionally correct” you are on your way. Monitor your progress. If you get off track a bit, simply adjust as you go.

As we do this process over and over again we soon  realize just how powerful our minds are — WHEN WE ACTUALLY THINK!