Don’t Leave Early, You May Miss The Best Part!

Last week was the 3rd camping trip of the summer.

The key criteria in selecting this particular spot was that it had to be remote, primitive camping: reachable only by canoe.

After doing some investigation we found Pillsbury State Park, in NH. And, the ideal site was totally secluded from the rest of the campground, reachable only via canoe. Score!

Cindy and I stayed 4 days / 3 nights.

Click here to view the campground map. We stayed at site number 38, located on the bottom half of the map, just below where the two ponds (Butterfield and May) join at “The Narrows.”

While not a huge, cold-water lake, which is our preference, it is a beautiful area to visit.

Here is the view from our front yard.

Pond

And, talk about primitive. When investigating I asked (for Cindy) if there was an outhouse at the site, to which the response was “Yes.” Below is what is called a “wet willy.” They didn’t fully qualify the term outhouse. But, it was fine as there was absolutely no-one else around 🙂

Wet Willy

As always, we did some fishing. We began using worms but had no luck. I then used a lure: the trusty Daredevil, and caught the only fish of the excursion. I’m pretty sure it was a baby pickerel. You’ll notice the lure is almost as big as the fish. So, back it went. As a kid my friends and I used to catch monster pickerels with Daredevils. While these are bony fish, if you catch’em big (18-24″) they are very good to eat!

Fish

Probably the 2 most exciting happenings of the trip involved a loon and then a downpour.

Let’s cover the loon first.

Although we didn’t get a picture or better yet a video (because it happened so fast) we sent a loon into a conniption fit (click here to look up the meaning 🙂 ). You see, we were paddling across the pond and came to a marshy, island spot in the middle. Cindy commented that she saw something that looked like a rock which seemed out of place. It was less than 10 feet away. As I gazed over I had a sneaky suspicion that it was some sort of wildlife.

Before we could say another word a loon rose up on its legs, furiously flapped it’s large, outstretched wings, jetted across the surface of the pond making sounds that only a loon can make. It was trying to lure us away from its nest.

Now, I’ve seen MANY loons in my life, but never a display of shear panic! And, the bird was MUCH larger than I would have imagined, since when observing loons they are typically in the water and you can only see their head and a portion of their neck – from afar.

Little did this bird know: it could have attacked, causing us to roll the canoe sending us swimming for our lives 🙂

Thankfully, its instincts told it to become a decoy.

As it was putting on its act, I noticed a large brown egg in its nest, confirming the reason for its display. Needless to say, we stayed away from that spot for the remainder of our time there…

Then, we had some rain, which was forecasted for the last full day of our stay.

The night before we proactively hung a tarp from the trees above our tent to minimize the amount of rain that would fall on our sleeping quarters. A good idea overall, but it didn’t rain much during the night making this unnecessary. However, there was wind, so the tarp made for an annoying noise-maker the entire night, as it sounded like a very large kite being blown around. I suppose I could have gotten up and cut it loose 🙂

Site

On the final full-day of our stay I arose to an overcast sky and fired-up the cooking torch (a small propane tank with a burner attachment that can be used to boil water or cook a meal) to start the water for our coffee. I then checked the weather on my iPhone. To my surprise there was a severe weather alert indicating that downpours were expected to begin within 30 minutes. I quickly woke Cindy and we prepared for the onslaught.

We already had our easy-up in place, over the picnic table. But, with heavy rain comes wind. So, we needed to install walls (a.k.a. tarp) on the corner of the easy-up facing the direction of the wind so that our gear wouldn’t get wet. Since we’ve done this before, it was a pretty quick procedure. Shortly after completing the setup the sky opened up!

After a couple of hours standing in our shelter I commented: I wonder if we could make a break for it?

NOT an easy task: breaking down camp, packing the gear in the canoe, paddling to shore in the driving rain, unloading and then loading everything (wet) into the truck. So, we quickly determined it would be best to ride it out.

Fortunately we both brought good books. Mine was the second in a series by a Hampton Beach native (Jed Power), who writes crime novels. I purchased 2 of his books while at Hampton Beach last week, completing the first (The Boss of Hampton Beach) prior to departing on our camping trip. The setting for his stories is Hampton Beach. And, if you’ve been there more than a few times and read his books, the stories truly come to life as he navigates you around the area as the story unfolds. An amazing experience and a recommended author!

Back to camp…We decided it would be more comfortable sitting in our camping chairs to read, but they wouldn’t fit under the easy-up in its current configuration, considering the picnic table was taking up all the space. So, we grabbed another tarp and hung it as a roof from the end of the easy-up (opposite the previously installed wall) to a couple of trees, creating a make-shift patio.

For the next several hours we “did a dance.” While reading, one of us would observe that the sun was out and it had stopped raining. We’d grab our chairs and move them outside, to continue reading our engrossing books. Then the rain would start up again, and we’d return to our shelter. We repeated this dance several times until finally the showers were over, and my book (Hampton Beach Homicide) was completed.

And, a beautiful rainbow was on display.

Rainbow

Now it was time to inspect our tent. Thankfully, none of our sleeping gear was wet. However, the bottom of the tent was so we emptied everything out, un-staked it from the ground and hung it from the trees to let the bottom dry out. Cindy, being the great sport she is, got under the tent and wiped down the bottom to make sure it was dry for the evening’s rest. If you zoom in you can even see the smile on her face 🙂

Cindy tent

All-in-all it was a great trip at a highly recommended camping spot!

Had we left early, prior to (or during) the rain, we would not have had the opportunity to complete our excellent books or witness the beautiful rainbow after the storm. And, finally, by riding out the storm we can say that we made the best of it, through what some would consider a miserable situation, fully enjoying the experience of raw nature 🙂

Life is Good! More to come!

Our Vocabulary – Did You Know?

Did you know that studies have been conducted supporting the fact that the success a person achieves in their life is directly related to the extent of their vocabulary?

These studies are referenced by Earl Nightingale, in his program: Lead the Field.

Following are a few excerpts…

Not enough people realize that it is our ability to use our language that will determine our place on the social pyramidand that will also control, to a great extent, the amount of money we will earn during our lives.

A person may dress in the latest fashion and present a very attractive appearance. So far, so good. But the minute he or she opens his or her mouth and begins to speak, he or she proclaims to the world his or her level on our social pyramid…Our use of our language is the one thing we can’t hide.

In Lead the Field, he references a 20-year study of college graduates.

Without a single exception, those who had scored highest on the vocabulary test given in college, were in the top income group, while those who had scored the lowest were in the bottom income group.

He also references a study by scientist Johnson O’Connor, who gave vocabulary tests to executive and supervisory personnel in 39 large manufacturing companies.

Presidents and vice presidents averaged 236 out of a possible 272 points; managers averaged 168; superintendents, 140; foremen, 114; floor bosses, 86. In virtually every case, vocabulary correlated with executive level and income.

I know, I know…We’ve all had the experience of reading, talking with someone or listening to a speech when the person seems to use words that were much more complicated than necessary.

Sometimes people can go overboard.

However, there are times when what is being communicated is best explained and/or more impactful with the use of a specific (albeit, infrequently used) word.

You’ve probably also had the experience, when hearing an unfamiliar word, of considering how that word is being used in the context in which it was shared. And, when doing so we can often make an educated guess as to the nature of its meaning. The result being that we have just learned something new!

Take the prior post (just below), in which I quoted Ralph Waldo Emerson. He uses the word “cipher”; an uncommon word. In the context of the sentence I had a pretty good idea of what he was referring to. Just the same, I wanted to make sure I “got it.” So, I looked it up – online!

Key suggestion: ANY time we come across an unfamiliar word we can serve ourselves well by IMMEDIATELY learning what it means. It is very quick and simple to do so. All we need to do is reach for our smartphone, go online and type “define [insert unknown word here]”. BLAMMO! Up comes definitions of the word including its usage within sentences. All, within seconds!

We can also use the Dictionary app on our iPhone.

In fact, the Dictionary app has a Word of the Day feature. While I’d consider my vocabulary to be pretty good, I’ve found that many of the words the app serves up each day are new to me. When a new word comes up I’ll often drill-in to learn its meaning.

In closing, we should NEVER skim over an unfamiliar word. Especially when we can so easily look up its definition. Because, upon learning a new word we have just expanded our horizon by another notch. And, as Earl Nightingale points out, each word serves as a nucleus around which numerous other words seem to whirl. So, by learning a single new word, we by default learn several related words in the process.

And, EVERY one counts as a puzzle-piece towards our success!

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Keep learning – every single day!

All the best!

What Will Tomorrow Bring?

Common, vexing questions of the human condition include:

  • What does the future hold for me?
  • Will I be able to make ends meet?
  • Will I find a suitable mate?
  • Will I be able to retire comfortably?

In summary, we “think” we’d like to know the answer to the question: “What will tomorrow bring?

We can make educated guesses and assumptions. We can give our money to a psychic who can wow us with their seemingly spot-on predictions.

However, the reality is: No-one REALLY knows. No-one!

That said, must we merely surrender ourselves to fate?

No! Check this out…

As you may have experienced, in your own reading, there are certain authors who can lay down sentences and paragraphs, each of which contain so much wisdom that you must pause and give your mind a chance to process it. And then, you must read it again just to make sure you got it all.

One of my favorite authors is Ralph Waldo Emerson, who gives us this to think about, as we contemplate the future…

In the nature of man, a veil shuts down on the facts of to-morrow; for the soul will not have us read any other cipher than that of cause and effect. By this veil which curtains events it instructs the children of men to live in to-day. The only mode of obtaining an answer to these questions of the senses is to forego all low curiosity, and, accepting the tide of being which floats us into the secret of nature, work and live, work and live, and all unawares the advancing soul has built and forged for itself a new condition, and the question and the answer are one.

WOW. Did your mind just explode on that one? Mine does each time I read it.

You see, to the GREATEST degree, we control (CREATE) our future. What we do today has a direct impact on our tomorrows: tomorrow being 1, or 1,000 days away.

In all cases, we “own it.”

How do we go about CREATING our future? That is explained in the post below. So, if you REALLY want to know, keep reading.

Just some quick food for thought on a bright and sunny, Monday morning.

I dare you to again read the above quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson. Truly pause and THINK about (process) what was shared. It can change your life!

All the best!