Category Archives: Personal Success

Mind the Career – With Zero Excuses!

This continues the series on achieving Mind Like Water, with the goal of creating a life of effortless abundance.

As a reminder, this does NOT suggest that ANYTHING will come to us free-of-charge. In fact, we must work our tails off. The reality is, however, many work their tails off going around in circles, without achieving the life that they’d REALLY like to experience.

We hear and read a LOT about income inequality. I’m kind of sick of it. I’m not suggesting that all labor practices and compensation plans are fair and equatable, or that nothing should be done about it.

My concern is that all this talk about income inequality creates an unnecessary obstacle in too many minds, as they come to “think” that they cannot achieve the income of their dreams.

I’d rather we reinforce the fact that, with few exceptions, EVERY individual has a choice with regards to how much they can “earn.”

We can setup obstacles to earning more (in our mind) and complain, or we can acknowledge that there are unlimited opportunities if we only reach for them.

Bottom-line: We are ONLY paid for the value we deliver to society.

If we decide to remain stagnant by not continuously learning, growing and improving, our income will remain the same. Worse, considering inflation, our actual buying power will be reduced over time. And, finally, the world will definitely leave us in the dust.

The government will not fix this. Your employer will not fix this. The only person who can set your income is the one you see while looking in the mirror.

And, a “mere” college education is NOT a guarantee to ongoing and increasing earning power. In fact, some of the wealthiest people on the planet didn’t attend college or dropped out before earning a degree.

We can increase our earning power by doing several things, most of which relates to increasing the quality and quantity of service we provide society, including:

  • Doing more than we are paid for
  • Constant and never-ending improvement
  • MOVING ON

Doing More Than We Are Paid For

I like a quote of Napoleon Hill’s (author of Think and Grow Rich), which goes something like:

If we only do what we are paid to do, then we are getting paid for all we are worth, aren’t we?

Want to earn more? Do more than asked. While you may not immediately realize the payoff, it will ultimately come, in one or more forms.

  1. You will be recognized for going the extra mile and your employer will adjust your compensation.
  2. You will learn new things along the way. It could be that you develop excellent time management or productivity habits that increases your output. And/or, you may pick up new job-related skills and duties that increase your worth to the company.

In any case, your compensation will catch up. If not where you are working now, then at the next place you decide to go.

Constant and Never-Ending Improvement

To reinforce, the primary approach to increasing our earning power is continuously (that means never-endingly) investing in the process of educating ourselves. Education does NOT stop after high-school or college. That was simply the foundation.

It is a bonus if our employer will send us to, and pay for, training. Whether they do or not, we have many hours every day (during our commute, after work, on weekends) to invest our time in self-development.

If we hone our skills and abilities every single day we make ourselves more valuable in the workplace. The result: we will find ourselves being elevated in our career as we are given increased responsibilities which comes with higher pay.

I know this, first hand.

I “only” acquired an Associates Degree from a community college, in northern Maine. This provided a foot in the door to my first “real” job. And, starting with pretty much NOTHING (other than some bad habits), I invested years in self-development and hard work (all of which has been described through-out this blog) to achieve some pretty outstanding results – did I mention, over time.

And, if I can do it, you can do it!

MOVE ON

Realizing that some organizations don’t have the wherewithal, in terms of funding or management practices, to pay us what we are truly worth, we must never forget that we have the ultimate choice as to whether we continue to work there, or not.

If we find ourselves in such a situation we need only explore the MANY other opportunities that exist in the marketplace to earn a living. It may be in the same, or different industry; the same, or different field; the same, or different geographic location. But, we do have the FINAL choice.

If you are in that position (contemplating moving on) and could use some guidance on how to land that next job, you may find some useful tips in a prior series: How To Land That Professional Job. Simply click here.

In closing, to ensure there is no misunderstanding…

I’ve hammered pretty hard on the fact that we, ultimately, set our own salary. It is realized that there are people who cannot work, or are limited in their ability to work, due to mental or physical handicaps. These are the “rare” cases (real people) that we must help. And, I’m more than happy to do my part!

For the rest of us…If we don’t like our paycheck, we can make a change (in ourself, the name of the company that employees us, or both)! It is our choice!

The Future is Here – Get Some!

With much anticipation related to the Apple Watch I visited our local Apple Store, with my eldest son and wife, on the first day it was possible to try one on and take it for a test ride.

To be honest, my key reservation was that I thought it was going to be a big, unsightly device on my wrist. Kind of like my Timex Expedition that has a number of features / functions (altimeter, barometer, chronometer, compass, stopwatch, etc.) in addition to telling the date and time (in multiple timezones). When I first put that one on my boys called me Buzz Lightyear. I certainly didn’t want to go through THAT again 🙂

To my delight, the Apple Watch comes in 2 very reasonable (non-gaudy) sizes! That was really all I needed to see. The rest of the tour, provided by the awesome Apple employee, was simply icing on the cake. I was hooked. He asked if I wanted to place my order now. I declined, because I wanted to think “at least a little while” about it.

My wife, son and I then went out to dinner. After just a little thought and conversation I decided to pull the trigger and ordered it from my iPhone. I chose the larger size in the blue sport model. Within 5 minutes my son had ordered his (the black sport model).

We were immediately notified that our watches would ship end-May, early-June. Not too bad, considering what we had read about the “possible” wait time.

Much to my surprise, I was notified by Apple on April 24, that my watch would be delivered on April 27. My son’s watch is still scheduled for end-May, early-June. Looks like I’m going to get a jumpstart on him 🙂

We aren’t sure why this happened. My guesses are that it is because the blue sport model isn’t in as high demand as the more conservative black model and/or because I have a business account with Apple and they prioritized me accordingly. Either way, works for me.

As I drove up to my house on the day of the scheduled arrival the UPS truck happened to be at the top of our driveway, and the driver was walking towards our neighbor’s house. I’m thinking – he must have already delivered my watch. Time to play (I mean learn how to use my new productivity tool). On entering the house I hollered to my wife, who I could hear doing something upstairs: “Hey there, did they deliver my Apple Watch?” Her response: “No.”

Really!?!,” I exclaim: “The truck is at the top of the driveway!” She then responds: “Didn’t hear the doorbell ring.

Man, I think…Don’t you even care about me? 🙂

I run outside…Did they leave a note on the kitchen door? Nope. How about the front door? Nope. At this point, I’m about to chase down the UPS truck – I’m here, I’m here!

Realizing this probably wasn’t a good idea, I reserved myself to the fact that either it will be delivered by another UPS truck or maybe my wife is playing a trick on me. Upon going upstairs I ask: “Come on, did they deliver my watch?” She cracked up. There it was!!!

As I’ve written before, unpacking a new Apple product is like opening a box of fine jewelry. Only in this case you get something truly functional!

Within just a few short minutes I had it lit-up, connected to my iPhone and integrated into my life.

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One of the things I had read about the Apple Watch, which some were complaining about, is that you now will receive numerous alerts on your wrist and it becomes a major distraction.

Like most things in life, it doesn’t have to be this way. People: take control of your Apple Watch!

There are very simple settings that you can use to control what, if any, alerts you receive on your wrist. So there!

Why, some might ask, do you feel you need one of these devices? A few reasons:

  1. Productivity – A primary area in which my consulting firm works with our clients (mid-to-large corporations) is on increasing operational efficiencies (productivity improvements). And, when we can show a client how to shave even a few seconds off an individual transaction it can literally save them thousands upon thousands of dollars. Time = money. The same holds true in our personal life. That is, I am ALWAYS looking for ways to shave even a few seconds off the things I do multiple times a day so that I can focus on the more fun and productive aspects of life. Examples, with the Apple Watch, which I’m aware of after having it in my life for a mere 4 hours:
    1. When my phone rings I must either pull it out of my pocket or find it on the counter to see who is calling. With the Apple Watch I just glance at my wrist and accept or decline the call. And, I can even take the call ON the Apple Watch if I choose, and talk to the caller through the watch.
    2. When I receive a text I can glance at my watch (vs. hunting down the phone) and respond via the watch. This includes custom responses I can set or I can provide my response via voice and hit send.
  2. I can see it!!! My “old” Citizens (solar-powered) watch is pretty nice but I can’t see the date. My contact lenses have been failing me recently 🙂 And, this makes me realize that “old” watches are now merely jewelry vs. the Apple Watch which adds productivity to my life.
  3. I plan on remaining technically savvy – I want to keep ahead of (or at least “up with”) my kids for as long as possible, when something “makes sense.” The Apple Watch truly makes sense to me. 15 +/- years ago Timex tried out a “semi-smart watch”, although it wasn’t called that in those days. It offered functionality (wasn’t called an app then either) that allowed you to create appointments on your computer. Then, you’d press a button and the computer screen would transmit an image (just snow to the human eye). You’d then hold the watch up to the computer screen and it would download your appointments to the watch. Within 5 minutes I decided to return that one. The technology was FAR from being ready…
  4. Health and fitness – I already use my iPhone to track mountain bike rides (distance, duration, top speed, etc.). With the Apple Watch I can now track my heart rate. In addition, I can set an activity monitor / prompter as a reminder to move about during the day (for those of us who happen to sit in an office for long periods of time). I’ll be turning that off soon, once I go on this year’s summer break 🙂
  5. iPhone = Server / Apple Watch = Client – While it may not be entirely there yet, it is coming! And, to be clear, it isn’t a watch issue. The apps need to catch-up. Said another way, there are MANY apps I can now run from my wrist with my iPhone in my pocket. The iPhone is doing the “heavy lifting” and the watch is the user interface. There is so much potential here it is unbelievable. And, I know I’ve not even scratched the surface yet with what the current possibilities are.
  6. And, finally…I own Apple stock and am doing my best to promote their products. Which, is not hard to do. If you are a “user” you know exactly why they are the largest company from a market capitalization perspective (currently at $772 billion). An article I read today on Yahoo! Finance (“Here’s how much Apple earns more than everyone else“) provides stats that clearly demonstrate Apple took in more revenue in recently reported quarters than Exxon-Mobil, Wal-Mart and Microsoft – COMBINED! People LOVE their products.

So, that’s it for now, based on the last few hours. I’m looking forward to day-1.

I’ll report back at some point in the future if/when there is anything material to report.

In the meantime, place your order. This is NOT a passing fad. The future is here!

Moving Out – With Eyes Wide Open!

We are now at the stage when the boys are talking about moving into their own place!

An exciting time for all 🙂

Here is my advice, to ensure eyes are wide open and surprises are minimized.

When preparing to move-out, from underneath the roof of one’s parents, there are a number of considerations (questions to ask, research, thinking and planning to perform), including:

  • Location, location, location
  • What is in vs. what is out
  • Other, related expenses
  • Minimize the drama
  • Scope your options, from afar

Location, location, location

This is the primary consideration as it will directly impact your quality of life, including:

  • The type of people / neighbors you are likely to encounter
  • Safety and security for you, your belongings (in the apartment) and your car
  • Your time “on the road” to get to/from work, school, grocery shopping, etc.
  • Recreation and leisure – Is it within close proximity (walking distance) of “things to do” – a park, mall, downtown, etc.
  • And, finally, the monthly rent

Like many topics, this is a double-edged sword.

The most desirable locations will cost more than the less desirable locations.

There are several other factors related to cost, starting with the funding needed to get into the apartment, including:

  • The security deposit (typically one month’s rent, that the landlord will hang-on to until you move out – with no damages)
  • The first month’s rent (to move in)

What is in vs. what is out

Once you’ve honed in on the location(s) to be considered it is time to better understand the monthly costs, which is more than just the rent payment. To start, it is important to confirm what is included in the rent vs. what you are expected to cover on your own. The “potential” variable items include:

  • Heat and A/C
  • Electricity
  • Cable / Internet
  • Water
  • Garbage collection
  • Parking
  • Snow removal
  • Access to the gym, pool, etc.

In addition, you’ll want to know what furnishings come with the apartment, vs. those you are expected to provide. Considerations include:

  • Furniture – Kitchen table and chairs. Sofa, lamps, end tables, desk(s), beds, etc.
  • Basic furnishings – Shower curtain, window shades, etc.
  • Appliances – Refrigerator, stove, microwave, washer/dryer (typically laundry facilities are available, but this should be confirmed)

As such, when you are checking out apartments be sure to make note of these things during the viewing and ask the landlord (make no assumptions about what you see in the “model” apartment) so you aren’t surprised on day-1 with the things you may need to acquire in order to settle-in.

Other / related expenses

Now that you are moving out from underneath mom and dad’s roof, there are several other expenses that you’ll need to cover, and items you’ll need to provide, including:

  • Groceries – This is way more than food. It includes all the products and supplies that are taken for granted that you happen to find and use around the bathroom, kitchen, etc.
  • Furnishings – Towels and linens (bed sheets, etc.), shower curtain, pillows. Pots, pans, dishes and eating utensils.
  • Your clothing, cell phone bill, etc., if you aren’t already paying these.
  • Apartment insurance to cover your belongings in the event the building burns down or you are robbed. Your landlord does NOT protect you against such events.
  • And, one of the very last things the boys are thinking about. Cleaning supplies 🙂

Now that you’ve considered the cost-related factors, you’ll want to…

Minimize the variables

In my early days I lived in apartments with as many as 6 people (we were ultimately thrown out, luckily without any charges being pressed) to as few as 2 people, and everything in between. I have found that the most “stable” apartment living arrangement is when there are ONLY 2 people living together. It significantly reduces the variables and drama that increases exponentially with the addition of others to your living arrangements.

These variables include, but are not limited to:

  • Varying lifestyles – Work schedules, sleep schedules, partying “habits”, financial habits
  • Sharing – Inevitably, we will have things that are “just ours” vs. those things that can be shared. If there are several people living together it literally becomes a free-for-all. If there is only one other person living with you, you know exactly who ate your food, drank your beverage, used your deodorant or towel 🙂
  • The arrival of the roommate’s new girlfriend (or boyfriend) on the scene and the entirely new set of factors introduced into the equation
  • And finally, like the reality-show Survivor, any time there are more than 2 people, alliances will be formed and there WILL be an “odd man out.”

To keep things simple, identify a highly compatible roommate with whom you work out a few basic guidelines, BEFORE signing a lease. Because, once you’ve signed the lease – you are STUCK. Stuck living in a situation that you may not desire or STUCK making payments for an apartment that you are no longer living in because you decided to bail early. Yes, you remain responsible for your part of the monthly payment regardless of how you feel about your roommate.

Now that you’ve at least thought about all the above and are truly ready to begin exploring, you can easily…

Scope your options from afar

Whether you are looking for an apartment across town, or across the country, a useful service is Zillow.com. They have a website and app that allows you to filter on numerous variables to narrow down your search, view pictures and other details about available rentals and finally, they provide a method to contact the landlord.

Within a matter of minutes, you should be able to identify a few options enabling you to take the next step of setting up an appointment for a viewing.

Just don’t forget this list 🙂

Given that you have the means, taking into account the above considerations will make the big move as seamless and painless as possible.

Enjoy!