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Mooselookmeguntic – Visit #1 2015

As mentioned in a prior post, my wife and I had “planned” to make our first trip into-the-woods, last week, to return to Mooselookmeguntic Lake, in Maine.

While things don’t always go according to plan, EVERYTHING, ALWAYS works out for the best.

The “original” plan was to arrive on Monday, after attending our nephew’s college graduation party, the preceding Sunday. But, due to poor weather, we decided to delay the camping expedition by 2 days and take the opportunity to spend a couple of days with my folks.

Interestingly enough, as we pulled into their driveway we again heard that awful grinding sound from the front-end of our truck. This was the same sound we experienced on our return trip from Canada, over the Christmas break. However, this time it was coming from the right hand side. So, I looked into our maintenance records and found that the last “fix” was the replacement of the hub assembly on the left hand side. It now seemed that we were due for the same procedure on the right hand side. My wife could have said (but didn’t) “I told you we should have had them fix both sides the first time.” 🙂

I assumed the quickest fix for this would result from a dealership in Bangor and wasn’t disappointed!

Upon calling Quirk’s Chevrolet and describing our symptoms, they said: “We can get you in on Wednesday.” Uh-oh, I thought. That is when we are supposed to be “in-the-woods”, according to our latest plan.

I responded: “We are scheduled to head into-the-woods on a camping trip Wednesday, so this would be too late. Do you have anything sooner?”, to which he responded: “We are already over-booked.” I then asked: “Do you have a Suburban or other vehicle that I could put my canoe on, that we could rent, so that we can keep our plans?” His response: “We really don’t have any vehicles that big to loan. Let me see what I can do…” After a very short period of time he indicated: “We can jam you in, in the morning”, to which I responded “That is awesome. Thank you very much! I’ll bring the vehicle right in, so that it is there for you first thing in the morning.”

The result: Quirk Chevrolet called me at 8:30 the following morning to indicate the truck was fixed. Fantastic! We can keep our “revised” plans.

This was a much better outcome than what might have happened if the weather wasn’t bad and we had headed straight into-the-woods only to have this trouble materialize when we were MANY hours away from a facility with the necessary parts for such a quick fix.

Now that this was taken care of we could spend some relaxing time with my parents. This included, having a GREAT lunch of delectable seafood at a newly refurbished restaurant: McLaughlin’s Marina in Hampden. This is where my folks typically launch their boat on the Penobscot River and head to Penobscot Bay, on the coast of Maine. A beautiful boat ride that we’ve taken with them a few times, although the weather wasn’t permitting on this visit.

We also visited Cole’s Land Transportation Museum.

Now, to be perfectly honest…On any other day, I might have driven by this place and said to myself “I’d never get that 2 hours back in my life, if I visited (what would seem to be) such a boring place.” But, I would have been completely wrong in that judgement. We did spend a couple hours there and learned some fascinating things regarding the evolution of transportation for consumers and industry, especially as relates to the great state of Maine!

For example: Did you know that there is a Model-T Ford snowmobile conversion kit? This is where the word snowmobile first came from. Someone decided to build an attachment / kit to convert a Model-T Ford into a snow-going machine, and received a patent for doing so in 1917.

What amazing ingenuity!

After all this excitement, my wife and I then headed into-the-woods!

Upon checking in at Stephen Phillips Memorial Preserve, we loaded our gear into the canoe in order to make our paddling trip to Student’s Island. The goal: make only one crossing with everything needed for the next 24-hours.

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Success!

Although Cindy convinced me that we should return for the firewood and rations we’d need for the remainder of our trip, to get it all behind us. Very good advice!

Since this trip was in early June it still gets pretty cold at night, in that part of Maine. On the first night the temperature dropped to a mere 39 degrees. Upon waking in the middle of the night my feet were freezing. But, we had prepared by bringing along a cheap comforter. Once we slung that over our sleeping bags we were plenty toasty for the remainder of the night.

Even so, upon rising in the morning, we could clearly see our breath in the frosty air. This is when you truly know you are living 🙂

A confession: As I share information and photos about these trips I get a “little” worried that it will attract more people to this amazing / secluded place on our planet. But, instead of being selfish, here we go. My 2 favorite scenic photos from this trip are as follows:

Sunrise (with fog) on Mooselookmeguntic.

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Mid-afternoon as we paddled around Student’s Island seeking the prized trout.

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After several hours of paddling, keeping our worms wet and NO FISH we returned to our site. And, because we still had an abundance of worms we decided to cast our bait out and let it float around via bobber. The result: Cindy catches the ONLY / sizable fish on this trip.

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While it wasn’t a trout she at least caught a fish (and beat me again). My dad is again probably going to make some crack about asking Cindy to teach me how to fish 🙂

Here I am sitting in our front yard, enjoying the view.

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And finally, I would be remiss if I didn’t share a great experience that you simply CANNOT achieve while in civilization. That is, viewing a crystal clear, star-filled night sky. Yes, you can see “some” stars while in civilization. But, when you are in the middle of nowhere, with no light pollution, there is so much more to the night sky! On our second night, as we gazed upwards, we spotted 3 VERY BRIGHT lights, which we simply assumed were stars. Such is NOT the case. They were planets (Venus, Jupiter and Saturn). No, I didn’t identify these all by myself. I used the SkyView app on my iPhone which easily allows you to identify any heavenly body, including: planets, stars, constellations, satellites, space stations, etc. If you have an iPhone, give this app a try. You will be “star struck.”

After only a few short days of camping, on this first trip of the summer, we made our way to Kittery, in southern Maine. Here we found, on a prior trip, a great restaurant (Roberts) which serves outstanding raw oysters. So, we decided to spend the night in Kittery and return home the following day.

And, upon arriving home after being away for a week, we found the house in “reasonable shape.” That is, the boys did a pretty good job of upkeep.

So, all-in-all, a great getaway with no major surprises on our return (that we’ve found yet 🙂 ).

It is only early in our summer-long break and we have plans for other adventures. So, more to come…

All the best!

How Do We Know We’re Doing What We’re Supposed To Be Doing?

Every person on the planet, I would imagine, has at one time or another asked themselves questions like:

  • What do I want to be when I grow up? (I still don’t know. Maybe I will, once I grow up 🙂 )
  • What am I supposed to be doing with my life?
  • How will I know when I’m doing what I’m supposed to be doing?

I’d suggest the answer to the last question is: When “providence moves too.

This statement is an excerpt from one of my favorite quotes:

Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back– Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.~ W.H. Murray

I LOVE that quote!

Just to share a recent and relevant example…

If you read one of the prior posts, you know my wife and I are now on our summer-long break.

I was in the middle of cranking out one of these blog posts when I received the following email, from a connection in LinkedIn:

Hey Craig

Hope you’re doing well. I have a large project that will probably start implementation in January 2016. I will need some help on project management, starting some time in the fall. Can we talk at some stage about what the project will entail?

Regards,

[Contact from a prior client engagement]

Zowy. Did Providence move, or WHAT?!?!

Notice the timing…AFTER the summer break 🙂

I believe this to be a DESIGNED outcome resulting from working with Providence, defined as:

Timely preparation for future eventualities…

I shan’t write more about that in this post, as this site provides tons of content on preparing for future eventualities 🙂

Just sharing an example of how EVERYTHING, ALWAYS WORKS OUT.

Go ahead. Establish that dream. Set the step-by-step goals to get there. And, commit! If you do, you can make it (the realization of your dreams) happen!

All the best!

Trapped in The Matrix?

My all-time favorite movie franchise is: The Matrix Trilogy.

If you’ve not seen this AWESOME set of movies, Wikipedia offers a nice summary.

It depicts a dystopian future in which reality as perceived by most humans is actually a simulated reality called “the Matrix”, created by sentient machines to subdue the human population, while their bodies’ heat and electrical activity are used as an energy source. Computer programmer “Neo” learns this truth and is drawn into a rebellion against the machines, which involves other people who have been freed from the “dream world”.

I’d suggest that our society has MANY parallels with The Matrix. The question is: are we trapped by it?

Many are.

Following are a handful of questions that can help to determine if we are among the trapped…

Warning: This may be painful 🙂

We simply need to ask ourselves questions like: Do I…?

  1. Spend most of my time devoted (at work) to paying off a mortgage (and/or other debt) rather than enjoying life?
  2. Judge my (or other’s) success by the car I drive, the suburb I live in, and the size of the house I own?
  3. Work a job I don’t enjoy, thinking the money I earn will offset the misery of working in a career I am not passionate about?
  4. Buy stuff to make me happy?
  5. Focus more on my favorite sports team (and/or the news) than on personal development and advancement?
  6. Conform to the status quo and seldom question why things are done?
  7. Believe that my education was complete after High School or College?
  8. Think that living with traffic congestion (the daily commute) is part of normal everyday life?
  9. Believe the way to make ends meet is by going to work each day, for someone else, until retirement age (or death)?
  10. Believe my pay is determined by somebody else?

The more of these questions we answer with a “Yes”, the more likely we are trapped in the “dream world” called The Matrix.

In my early 20’s, I certainly was…

Are you? It is perfectly ok – if that is what you want.

It just wasn’t for me…

When the student is ready the teacher appears.

I’ve written throughout this blog about my exit from The Matrix (although it didn’t dawn on me to call it that) which began with a bootcamp experience. As such, I won’t cover that here.

While many of the above indicators are norms of our society, they need not apply to our lives. We must simply WAKE UP from this “dream world” and apply ourselves in ways that create the life we’d REALLY like to live.

We CANNOT leave this up to, or blame, anyone else: not the government, our employer, spouse, parents, friends, neighbors or church. They are simply NOT responsible for our lives. We are! And, we need not settle for societal norms!

In closing, the purpose of this post is to stir up some “constructive discontent.”

If you want to wake up from the “dream world” and create the life you’d truly like to live, begin the process by:

Ignorance (living in The Matrix) is NOT bliss!

All the best!